Sex Story: The Queer Divorcé Searching Polyamory

Illustration: by Marylu E. Herrera

This week, one explores his sex, kinks, and borders after staying in a heterosexual marriage: 34, in a polyamorous relationship, Philly.

time ONE

8:30 a.m.

I awake Sunday early morning in J’s western Village apartment. We found 12 years ago at an event (whenever I ended up being right and he ended up being a woman) and seriously disliked both. We not too long ago reconnected whenever I saw him tweeting about his divorce and subsequent transition. We slid into the DMs to enjoy him on the queer divorcé nightclub.

My personal ex and I had been with each other for seven decades. All of our matrimony were not successful simply because we increased aside. We went poly as an endeavor to regenerate it, which was a tragedy. Once I was unexpectedly in a position to big date again, I realized I found myself attracted to men (a realization that occurred at gymnasium, naturally).

Anyhow, J is an ideal twink — both boyish and fine. We see both every few weeks and communicate a lot in the middle.

9 a.m.

J and I fuck before my personal shuttle returning to Philly. I can tell J really likes becoming a kid and really loves screwing being banged by some other males. Giving him that knowledge is really as gratifying since intercourse it self.

11 a.m.

From the shuttle, we text my girlfriend, K, just who resides in Boston and it is visiting on Thursday. We’ve been undertaking long-distance for the past seven-ish several months. We inform their about my personal week-end with J, whom she actually is came across. Its cheesy poly shit, but I’m happy that my girl is becoming pals with someone I’m witnessing.

7 p.m.

We stop a game of

Elden Ring

to jack off.

11 p.m.

We switch off my PlayStation and book both K and J good night.

DAY a couple

9 a.m.

I actually do my WFH spreadsheets work in advertisement tech. Boring, whatever.

1 p.m.

Message a to ensure that individuals’re gonna spend time afterwards. They make contact with myself a little subsequent to confirm.

6:30 p.m.

Yoga class.

9 p.m.

an and I cuddle within lingerie. They certainly were a frequent next beside me and also the individual I was internet dating during COVID, but since that time, we have been trying (and weak) to reconnect for quite a while.

an is actually a specialist performer and contains a totally amazing human body. We don’t become connecting, however it seems great to get together. They will have observed big element of my personal queer development within the last 2 years. They let me know they’re relocating to the western Coast for a dance job. We tell them I’m excited for them, though in private i am sad, desiring I’d prioritized witnessing them much more.

11 p.m.

I make-out with a within their foyer until my personal Uber shows up. I’m regretful that I didn’t try and start a hookup earlier on. We promise to hang down before they leave.

time THREE

9 a.m.

Sign onto work, examine some email messages.

9:30 a.m.

Feed my sourdough beginning. I make bread for a weekly queer potluck I go to with C, a nonbinary pull king I’ve been witnessing rather regularly. I text them confirming they are going to the potluck tomorrow. In addition text V, the yoga teacher i am designed to see this evening. This lady has incredible abs, big eyes, and a blonde mullet. She’s had gotten that yoga-teacher crunchiness (that we seriously have actually anything for).

2 p.m.

I ask K about her plans for today. She’s going to a novel signing about queer background with a lady she’s watching. We tell their that I’m seeing V this evening. We are both pleased each different.

7 p.m.

I bike to V’s place. She can make vegan ramen. In a short time, we are naked inside her bedroom. V really likes that I can toss her around and pin their down — I found myself a powerlifter and a bodybuilder consistently before using yoga — and I like just how bendy and versatile she actually is. I grab her up and running and shag the lady while standing for a bit, that I can tell converts the girl in. She comes a number of instances following requires me to come. We assist.

10:30 p.m.

My feet are incredibly fatigued and tender that I need to cycle residence standing.

11 p.m.

K texts me a lovely selfie of this lady and her time. We tell their i really hope she’s a fantastic some time start

Elden Ring

to experience for one hour before bed.


7 a.m.

We wake up to a text from K exactly how she had a lot of homosexual intercourse. Hell yeah.

11 a.m.

The loaves of bread look great. I take an image that I post to Instagram and Twitter and send to any or all i am setting up or flirting with.

5:30 p.m.

We check out see C prior to the potluck. We get caught up inside their lawn. They can be disarmingly nice and easy to talk to, and enhance a sort and mild area in me that i prefer.

6 p.m.

We head to their particular room to create down and jack each other off a bit. Neither folks come, but neither people seems the need to. Something about setting up with C brings me into a very great “head unused, no views” room. Together with other men and women, my head can stroll regardless how a lot i am enjoying the intercourse, however with C, personally i think totally enveloped because of the knowledge.

9 p.m.

C and that I kiss both so long following the potluck. We catch a drive back once again to my personal community thinking of just how nice they’ve been.

time FIVE

7 a.m.

K relates to Philly these days!

12:30 p.m.

K texts me personally a lovely selfie of the lady regarding the Amtrak. We respond with a heart-eyes emoji.

5:15 p.m.

K arrives at my personal apartment, and I also’m happy to see the girl. She’s had gotten remarkable curls, strong doe sight, and a deliciously tight climber’s human anatomy. We came across at a pal’s celebration. I happened to ben’t positive I found myself prepared for a relationship, however the psychological hookup ended up being too good to not go after, despite the bullshit of long-distance. Now she is transferring to Philly becoming with me (also to get free from Boston). She actually is already been poly her entire xxx life and is getting ahold of her very own bisexuality just as Im. It feels very good become with someone who is certian through a number of the exact same stuff as myself.

We’ve got a lengthy, nice embrace. We bury my face in her own tresses and inhale the woman fragrance. We undress and go up onto bed. At some point, cuddling changes to fucking. We have become specialists in one another’s delight. We finger the girl, and she utilizes a vibrator until she comes, then I fuck their from behind and come inside of her — all of our sight secured within the mirror i have hung up alongside my personal bed. We just take a couple of lovely naked selfies with each other, then pass out in each other’s arms, all of our feet snuggled by my pet.

8 p.m.

We get up from your snooze and determine going to up the kink meetup at a bar within my community. I am new to the kink scene, but K’s been carrying it out for a time. We make light small talk which includes associated with attendees before K eventually operates in the confidence to inquire of a fairly girl who a few people are striking if she will have a turn. As K deftly slaps the girl ass with a riding crop, the woman whimpers with satisfaction, their right back arching. We take into account the probability of inviting her home and fucking the woman together. But she actually is there along with her lovable (but clearly direct) date, and I’m positive he’s probably considering the same about K.

11:30 p.m.

We go house giddy with excitement that K will move here therefore’ll be able to repeat this always. I am worn out, but K is excellent at rousing me while I’m sleepy. We fuck and pass out in each other’s arms.


12:15 p.m.

We use our very own lunch break getting gender. K is actually discovering some bi-gender material, so she wears a binder and I call their my kid. I really don’t love being as well principal with ladies, but I do like it with dudes. I have the girl give me a call “Daddy,” slapping the woman ass and fucking the woman tough. Neither of us arrives, but both of us have a lot of delight from the jawhorse.

5:30 p.m.

Yoga class with K. V is not instructing tonight, but all functions have actually confirmed so it would not end up being weird if she happened to be. During course, we idly imagine a post-yoga threesome with K and V.

7 p.m.

K and I grab takeout on route straight back from the facility, smoke cigarettes weed, watching certain symptoms of

Superstar Trek: Deep-space Nine

. (she actually is an enormous lover.)

9 p.m.

K pegs me together with the band that people purchased on her finally go here. I quiver with delight. We’re both surfaces but switch for every some other. She draws my personal tresses, and I also drive her band in a lot of positions. When my personal anus cannot go anymore, we screw their and appear within this lady. However have this lady down making use of a mix of a vibrator and a metal insertable rod. She squirts a whole lot (we have now discovered to get a towel down), next will come difficult, melting into my hands.

time SEVEN

8 a.m.

We awake before K to get some

Elden Ring


9:30 a.m.

K gets upwards, therefore have bagels and coffee.

8 p.m.

After a relatively low-key day, K and that I plan to visit down with buddies to an area queer party night. K really does my eyeshadow, and I also put on my black-leather harness, leather-based cuffs, and cat ears.

11 p.m.

We meet our very own buddies on club, that have coke and mushrooms. K partakes of both, but we stick to weed. There are a lot lovely males.




good looking man with a Jersey accent comes up if you ask me and excitedly says hello. I am visibly baffled until he reminds me that he’s D, the man from my personal very first Grindr hookup last fall (well, one of them — it was a foursome in a hotel where I was too anxious to have hard). We expose him to K, whom says to him it’s an honor.

12 a.m.

Dance and flirting with cuties together (as well as the drugs) have K and me personally buzzing and frisky. We get into a bathroom stall, and she instantly starts blowing me. The seediness in the whole experience is an enormous switch on for people.

1 a.m.

The friends imply that there will be an after-party and probably an orgy, but both K and I also tend to be not having enough electricity and want to get a yoga course each day. We simply take an Uber home, possess some smooth and tired intercourse, and fall asleep in each other’s arms.

Desire to publish an intercourse diary? E-mail

and tell us just a little about yourself (and study our very own submitting conditions

right here